DOESN'T STICK, THEN REVIEW

It is said by many that knowledge is power, but unless you can make use of that knowledge then its just a waste of brain space. We strive to take in all the knowledge we can because we believe that it will empower us to reach what we crave in life, but is memorising facts enough to help us propel to greater heights. Understanding how to comprehend that information and use it in real life situations is the key to happiness which will also help you in connecting with people. Without the ability to connect with people all the information you have memorised only hinders your attempts to relate with the common person. How you feel is now ignored and pushed aside because all your useless facts that you have memorised has flooded and taken over your sincerity to feel. Facts now are in charge of your heart which leaves know room for compassion and courtesy . Pumping out facts like an emotionless robot, with only one thing on your mind "LOOK AT ME AND WHAT I KNOW ?". All the knowledge in the world can not help you build a respectful relationship with the ones you care about. If connecting with people is not your main goal, then you may want to review what is important to you. Without the love of family and friends in our life what else could take precedent. If we are here just to improve the quality of our own life then what hope does society have. If the fact is that the power of knowledge can not be used for the better of man kind, we as humans may as well as forget that the word human derives from the word humane.

BIG HEADS GET DEFLATED

Talking yourself up when your in a conversation with people seems to have the same results. Whether your talking with a friend or foe it doesn't take long before someone wants to knock you off your pedestal. A lot of people don't like the idea of someone having that much confidence in themselves because it seems to create a negative impact on the people that surround them. Their initial reaction can be construed as jealousy because they are comparing your comments to their own perspective of life, rather than individual point of views and the result of that is that their not happy to see someone who is happy with what they believe is right. This is also because they themselves feel that you've overpowered their own confidence. If you don't want to bump heads your better off speaking with those who aren't in a battle of who's right and who's wrong, but are who comfortable having a healthy discussion. Those who treat you with discontent should only receive your outer soul, not your core.

FAITH NO MORE

Religion is a funny thing their seems to be exceptions made in most religions. Loyal followers change the rules depending on their level of belief. Whether your an avid believer your disciplines vary depending on your emotional attachment. Is it wrong for one religion to have followers with multiple degrees of perspectives ? If perspectives are our version of truth than what makes it wrong if our opinions vary on our own interpretations of religion. Some followers will strictly believe if your not following the words preached to you than your not showing blind faith to your religion which is a slap in the face to the religion . If our faith shows us that you must be rigid in your life's view to satisfy the rules of your religion, than is their any room for individuality. Is their something wrong with following the main rule treat others how you yourself want to be treated ? Our main focus should be on are we happy, not how can we be happy if we don't follow what we told we should follow to have a so called enriched life. Peace starts in the mind, you have to be happy with who you are and not with what people are saying you should be, to be more religious. Good will is not just found in religion it is also found in mutual respect of all religions. So if you preach it you better believe it, otherwise hypocrites don't have many loyal followers.

IN GOD WE TRUST

Are we so naive that we think that if we pray hard enough that God will consider our requests?. Why do a lot us think Gods plan can change for us because of our own mighty ideas that we have for our life ?. What we know of life is not enough to enlighten God in what we hope should be our purpose in life. In all Gods wisdom what hope do we have trying to make a supporting case for our request. This is why we pray, it is because we recognise our inability to change our fate. Are we so arrogant to believe that our purpose in life should be reconsidered because we not ready for the end. If we don't  give our full trust and faith how can we believe that our life is in Gods hands. Praying is the only hope that we are left with, it shows that we are at the mercy of God and our will most probably is not ready to face the end. Is it our mercy that is shown to us if our desires are met or was it always part of the grand plan. Human nature fools us to believe that what we hope will happen only if we just believe passionately enough. Could our life experiences just be a test for our next chapter. All that is for sure is what ever will be will be, so their is no need to dwell on what is and just accept what has to be.

KIND HEART OR BLIND HEART

It is hard when your emotions get in the way of a logic mind, where your senses are dulled by your feelings. Filling your heart with only feelings of sincerity can sometimes block your mind from the harsh truth that the ones that are close to you a prone to hurt you more because the more you care, the more vulnerable you are. So should you be more critical of the the ones you love? because you usually give them your all. Some people would rather hide their feelings from others because the chance of getting hurt is higher and too much for them to bare. A life where you only show others your strong points doesn't allow for you to take bold stances and keeps you in the shadows of doubt. If you don't allow yourself to be comfortable in the real world than your just surviving and not living. So be brave and be yourself because those who don't like you all the time, they are the ones that would limit their own views on life. Allowing yourself to see people for all that they are and accept their idiosyncrasies shows less prejudice than blinding yourself from the truth.

ITS NOT IN MY FAVOUR

Favour's seemed to have lost their true meaning. It is now common practice that before someone says yes to a favour that they have to tick the box's to make sure that saying yes wont really inconvenience them. In the past a favour would leave a positive impact on the person receiving the favour because they knew someone was going out of there your way to convenience them. Now if it doesn't convenience them, the answer is next time is better for me. A favour should stand proud on a pedestal, to show that you give respect to whatever is being asked of you. Showing appreciation has now changed because when you've been asked for a favour it may now come with attached guilt that you have to wear if you've given the power of approval to someone that you need a little assistance from. So swallow your dignity or don't expect help when your in a jam but remember what goes around comes around and how your treated governs your own choices. To the unwilling, don't fool yourself the power you have been given is temporary and will leave the moment you take given power for granted and abuse it. What's good for the goose is also good for the gander and having that ammo in reserve will always mean that they will lose the argument in the end because it is hard to argue with logic. So choose your words carefully and play by the rules and you will receive the equal respect that everybody craves and deserves.

NO WHERE TO HIDE

Telemarketers are really good at bringing out the bad in us all. They prove to us even the kindest heart turns black when a telemarketer calls. The more patient you are the more they see it as an opportunity to push you to buy what their selling. Trying to be tactful with them just directs their attention to the sheet of paper that tells them how to retaliate, with another question. So be prepared to hang up or be hassled every bad time in the near future. Whether your having dinner or putting your kids to sleep, you cant avoid the call from India. Maybe you can tell the next teleballbreaker that "your busy now but if they give you their number you'd be sure to call them during dinner or maybe when their trying to watch a movie if that better suits them during their own personal time.

CIVILISATION CEASE TO EXIST

More people these days are choosing not to have kids because their time is so valuable and it is hard for them to justify splitting another piece of the time pie. The choice not to have kids could be broken down to a selfless act or a selfish choice. Whether the choice has been swayed because a certain lifestyle can not be given to the unborn child or a certain lifestyle would be taken away from the newly parent, this is determined by the plans the parent has for their lifestyle. A lot of woman and men would do anything to become parents because they believe that they would be a great parents, much better than those mothers and fathers that shouldn't be fit to call themselves parents. Whatever the reasons for choosing to have kids or not to have kids civilisation can be affected. So those who do have a choice to have kids but would rather not have to deal with it , they should be thankful that their mother and father didn't have the same attitude as them. Luckily those who want to have kids are still the majority because the moment the scales change so does our future. Within 50 years the magic of life will cease and so will the hope of evolution leading our race to fulfil whatever the hell we here for.

NEVER ENDING BLUE LINE

If hospitals are there to help people why is it the moment your in its like every person for themselves. The places are designed like fortress , they seemed to have been built when common sense hadn't been discovered. The bigger the hospital the more confusing the maze, organised in a way that sometimes to get to a elevator you have to go down three flights of stairs which will be the only way to the top floor. The only thing to guide you is to follow the blue lines while staring at the floor and hoping not to miss any signs up high. Then you notice someone that obviously works there hoping he can point you in the right direction. But when you follow his instructions it can only get you so far , before your lost again. When you finally get to the point of the visit its time to make your way back home through the maze of no hope and get to your car and pay a hefty parking fee. So I repeat why is it so hard to get help at hospitals. Now I know why people really don't like to going to hospitals.

A NATURAL THING

Breast feeding is a natural thing that can be done in two different ways, discreetly and out in the open.  Mothers who try to cover themselves and their child while breast feeding don't feel comfortable being on display for everyone to see. While some mothers feel why should they be ashamed when it is only natural to feed their child, even though it might mean having to show a part of them that they were not comfortable revealing when they didn't have kids. They then believed that some things are better done behind closed doors. Is it possible that the process of having kids can sometimes make a woman feel she isn't attractive anymore because she can feel like a mobile milk bar for her baby, and feeding her baby out in the open is her way of getting some attention. The unwanted attention she would of got if she showed too much cleavage, usually came with a guys response "SHOW US YOUR TITS". A woman would have slapped him even before he finished the sentence. So all the crude remarks that the strangers made would have been okay if they just waited until the natural thing occurred . Some could say having sex is natural thing luckily that is still be done behind closed doors most of the time.

I THINK I AM

Does our subconscious have a different agenda than our conscious mind. Why are we unaware of the part of our brain that seems to be more perceptive. Our waking life's obligations distracts us from the deeper desires that lay dormant in our subconscious mind, time alone allows you to recharge your battery and get your mind back on track. You are at peace when your life is in organised order. Life in slow motion allows for calculated decisions that are reflections of rationally mind without the fear of a rash decision. Our subconscious seems to have the answers that we take a life time to find because our minds ability to filter life's experiences and store them in order is something our conscious mind can't comprehend.

NEVER GROW UP

Kids shows may be set up to keep the kids entertained, but if kids have focused on another distraction Why do we as adults still keep the shows on ?. Is it because we think the ending will change, even though we've seen it 15 times. Are we trying to show our kids that we are committed to finishing what we started, or do we just find hi-5 and giggle and hoot just a hoot. Whatever it is, not many of us will admit that the matured child in us still is entertained by the shows that are designed for kids.

FRIENDLY OR JUST FRIENDS

When did the relationship between family and friend get so complicated ?, if someone wasn't family you'd still treat them as if they were. Your personality wouldn't vary depending on who was your audience, what you saw in someone would be what you got when socialising with them. So you would be known and accepted for all your good and bad traits without feeling unsure of what was really going on in the other persons mind. Are we so afraid of what people would think of us that we just play it safe when attempting to open up? Cant we just let people like us for ourselves ? because the fact remains you can not please everybody, so you must work out from the start are we true friends or just pretending to be friendly? The act can only go so far before you realise you may think your pleasing your friends but your losing yourself in the lies.

SHOULD KIDS BE TREATED LIKE ADULTS

A lot of people find it a challenge to try keep their fast paced schedule with kids, trying to manage their time without the realisation that they no longer have their time and it's now impossible to keep a routine when kids are involved. So why do we see so many examples of parents treating they're kids like adults when a child's brain hasn't developed yet ? Why are kids being put under pressure to grow up quicker because it will make the parents life easier? Is this a sign of a parent showing trust or just delusional parent believing their child is ready for what they're themselves were never ready for.