LIFE WITHOUT JUDGEMENT

Placing negative judgements on females  purely because of their gender will not only hold back those who are being judged , but also limit societies own potential. A society that doesn't encourage all its people to excel are only putting limitations to their resources and dumbing down society.  A man dominated society will only limit its own perspective on the truths of the world. Men and women views expressed together will bring both sides to the table which will bring choices that are better balanced based on what is best for all the people.

LOST MY WAY

The misconception of what is really the most important thing in life may vary between family, career, fortune and fame. The truth is, the most significant thing in your life has to be your level of compassion. Its compassion that helps you connect to one other which will give you a strong desire to try and alleviate someones Else's pain. Being human and being humane should go hand in hand, because humanity is an embodiment of what makes us human, and without compassion we are just emotionless robots. People can live without a family, a career, a fortune and fame but without compassion the purpose of life is meaningless.

READY OR NOT DOES IT REALLY MATTER ?

Age can sometimes get confused for capabilities. Some people believe that pushing people to perform will help in their growth. Ignoring the individuals capabilities just because the average age group shows that he or she should be ready to advance will only lead to disappointment. Catergorising people by mainly focusing on their similarities will only force an incomplete evaluation that will not show a true indication of what level the individual is ready for. A true assessment of readiness can only be determined if you take in consideration all the stages that they have completed. The mentality ready or not doesn't allow for those who develop at different times and teaches people that we can't wait for you so pick up your pace. Unless we break free from the thrall of a closed mind and judge each case separately we will be left wondering what went wrong. 

BROADEN YOUR HORIZONS

There is a type of narrow minded thinking that restricts people from looking deep into things. I like to refer to this as O.W.T which stands for old wog thinking. Now I'm sure this type of thinking can be found not only in the old stubborn minds of our community but also can be found in the younger generations. It's sad to think if your hoping to gain only useful knowledge from those who have lived longer than yourself its not always the case, because your naive mind may fall prey to the weakness that usually comes when spending time with a deteriorated mind. At first their beliefs may sound convincing but once analysed the bias and negative views stand out and don't match your own outlook on life. So if you don't want to be a backward thinker hold onto the good and filter the bad before you get O.W.T