Tuesday 26 February 2013

A NATURAL THING

Breast feeding is a natural thing that can be done in two different ways, discreetly and out in the open.  Mothers who try to cover themselves and their child while breast feeding don't feel comfortable being on display for everyone to see. While some mothers feel why should they be ashamed when it is only natural to feed their child, even though it might mean having to show a part of them that they were not comfortable revealing when they didn't have kids. They then believed that some things are better done behind closed doors. Is it possible that the process of having kids can sometimes make a woman feel she isn't attractive anymore because she can feel like a mobile milk bar for her baby, and feeding her baby out in the open is her way of getting some attention. The unwanted attention she would of got if she showed too much cleavage, usually came with a guys response "SHOW US YOUR TITS". A woman would have slapped him even before he finished the sentence. So all the crude remarks that the strangers made would have been okay if they just waited until the natural thing occurred . Some could say having sex is natural thing luckily that is still be done behind closed doors most of the time.

Monday 25 February 2013

I THINK I AM

Does our subconscious have a different agenda than our conscious mind. Why are we unaware of the part of our brain that seems to be more perceptive. Our waking life's obligations distracts us from the deeper desires that lay dormant in our subconscious mind, time alone allows you to recharge your battery and get your mind back on track. You are at peace when your life is in organised order. Life in slow motion allows for calculated decisions that are reflections of rationally mind without the fear of a rash decision. Our subconscious seems to have the answers that we take a life time to find because our minds ability to filter life's experiences and store them in order is something our conscious mind can't comprehend.

NEVER GROW UP

Kids shows may be set up to keep the kids entertained, but if kids have focused on another distraction Why do we as adults still keep the shows on ?. Is it because we think the ending will change, even though we've seen it 15 times. Are we trying to show our kids that we are committed to finishing what we started, or do we just find hi-5 and giggle and hoot just a hoot. Whatever it is, not many of us will admit that the matured child in us still is entertained by the shows that are designed for kids.

Thursday 21 February 2013

FRIENDLY OR JUST FRIENDS

When did the relationship between family and friend get so complicated ?, if someone wasn't family you'd still treat them as if they were. Your personality wouldn't vary depending on who was your audience, what you saw in someone would be what you got when socialising with them. So you would be known and accepted for all your good and bad traits without feeling unsure of what was really going on in the other persons mind. Are we so afraid of what people would think of us that we just play it safe when attempting to open up? Cant we just let people like us for ourselves ? because the fact remains you can not please everybody, so you must work out from the start are we true friends or just pretending to be friendly? The act can only go so far before you realise you may think your pleasing your friends but your losing yourself in the lies.

SHOULD KIDS BE TREATED LIKE ADULTS

A lot of people find it a challenge to try keep their fast paced schedule with kids, trying to manage their time without the realisation that they no longer have their time and it's now impossible to keep a routine when kids are involved. So why do we see so many examples of parents treating they're kids like adults when a child's brain hasn't developed yet ? Why are kids being put under pressure to grow up quicker because it will make the parents life easier? Is this a sign of a parent showing trust or just delusional parent believing their child is ready for what they're themselves were never ready for.